that makes people want it so badly?? so much that they will settle for something less than what they deserve to have it (or so they want to believe)… don’t know what word it is yet??… well for those who haven’t guessed it… L.O.V.E. That one little word can change EVERYTHING!! And what made women start believing they can’t live without being in love? maybe all those damn commercials have something to do with it. The ones that make women want to get married and have a family.. well people it kind of backfired.. there are more girls getting pregnant and married before they even have a chance to figure themselves and what they want and that results in unhappy marriages which usually leads to divorce… SO why rush it?? or maybe it’s the fact that some of us have parents(mothers in particular) that plan out our weddings in their head and that’s what they look forward to is seeing their ”little girl” walk down the aisle one day.. the sad thing is… I was one of those people who thought I just had to be in love and in a relationship.. until recently.. now I have realized that I like being me.. JUST ME.. I have had time to really figure out who I am and what I want.. and that leaves me with a tough situation in about a month…my girlfriend comes home.. and I have realized that I don’t want to get married and settle down ANY TIME SOON… I want time to live my life and do things that I’ve wanted to do after college.. and as far as she is concerned everything is the same as when she left.. ha that will be a big surprise…any way my point is women.. you don’t absolutely have to be in a relationship to find happiness.. you can be independent and find your own joy and love.. you don’t need someone to make you feel “complete”.. you should be able to do that yourself. After all you know yourself better than anyone else does!
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